Friday, September 22, 2017

Diary - Being a Girlfriend

I've been thinking of myself, since my transformation, as bisexual, or at least biromantic.  And I would still say that I am.  But I wonder if I would feel the same way if I were in a lesbian relationship.  A lesbian relationship is a meeting of equals.  A straight relationship is different.  Being a girlfriend is different than being a boyfriend. and I love the special feeling of being a man's girlfriend.  I wonder if I would lose that if I were in a relationship with another woman.

This doesn't change who I'm attracted to, so I would still call myself bi.  But I think realizing this does change what kind of relationship I would want to be in.

It's fun to think about being with another woman.  But maybe I should stick with men.

For now, I'll stick with my man. :)


Wednesday, September 20, 2017

Miss Doubtfire 15

Turning into someone else would lead to all sorts of awkward circumstances, but this has to be one of the most awkward: accidentally finding out how other people really feel about you.


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Tuesday, September 19, 2017

The Voyeur

As I was doing a little research for this caption, I discovered that voyeurism, even so-called "video voyeurism," is not actually explicitly illegal in much of the country.  That seems crazy to me.  As someone who values her privacy rather highly, I find that kind of creepy.

So, uh, let's assume, I suppose, that Charlie lives in a state where it is illegal.


Diary - The Shoulder

My boyfriend's sexy shoulder portrait.

I wanted to bring J. to that big family party I went to over the weekend, but it felt too soon.  It was too soon, right?

I'm so new to all of this.


Sunday, September 17, 2017

Humans of the Great Shift - Brett

Being fetishized is not fun.  People are people; they're messy and complicated and unique, and reducing people to a race or a quirk of their personality, or their gender status in the case of trans people, ignores that beautiful complexity.  Treat people as people.


Diary - My Cousin Heather

Here's where I talked about Heather before.

There was some dancing at the party last night, and for the first time ever, I joined in.  I always used to join people when they danced in this reality, apparently; people have been asking me, since my transformation a year ago, why I never dance anymore.  The reason, of course, is that, until recently, I didn't know how to dance.  I don't actually have the experience or the actual legitimate honest-to-god ballet training that my female self has.

But now that I'm taking this dance class, I'm feeling a little more confident, and so I joined in.  And I'm so glad I did.  It was fun. :)


Saturday, September 16, 2017

Miss Doubtfire 13

I badly need to do some housekeeping stuff for my blog.  I have about two months worth of series I need to add to my series page, and I have some stuff I want to straighten out with the tags I use on some of my older posts.

But not tonight.  Party tonight.


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