Friday, September 22, 2017

Diary - Being a Girlfriend


I've been thinking of myself, since my transformation, as bisexual, or at least biromantic.  And I would still say that I am.  But I wonder if I would feel the same way if I were in a lesbian relationship.  A lesbian relationship is a meeting of equals.  A straight relationship is different.  Being a girlfriend is different than being a boyfriend. and I love the special feeling of being a man's girlfriend.  I wonder if I would lose that if I were in a relationship with another woman.

This doesn't change who I'm attracted to, so I would still call myself bi.  But I think realizing this does change what kind of relationship I would want to be in.

It's fun to think about being with another woman.  But maybe I should stick with men.

For now, I'll stick with my man. :)

~Kristen

Wednesday, September 20, 2017

Miss Doubtfire 15


Turning into someone else would lead to all sorts of awkward circumstances, but this has to be one of the most awkward: accidentally finding out how other people really feel about you.

~Kristen

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Tuesday, September 19, 2017

The Voyeur


As I was doing a little research for this caption, I discovered that voyeurism, even so-called "video voyeurism," is not actually explicitly illegal in much of the country.  That seems crazy to me.  As someone who values her privacy rather highly, I find that kind of creepy.

So, uh, let's assume, I suppose, that Charlie lives in a state where it is illegal.

~Kristen.

Diary - The Shoulder


My boyfriend's sexy shoulder portrait.

I wanted to bring J. to that big family party I went to over the weekend, but it felt too soon.  It was too soon, right?

I'm so new to all of this.

~Kristen

Sunday, September 17, 2017

Humans of the Great Shift - Brett


Being fetishized is not fun.  People are people; they're messy and complicated and unique, and reducing people to a race or a quirk of their personality, or their gender status in the case of trans people, ignores that beautiful complexity.  Treat people as people.

~Kristen

Diary - My Cousin Heather


Here's where I talked about Heather before.

There was some dancing at the party last night, and for the first time ever, I joined in.  I always used to join people when they danced in this reality, apparently; people have been asking me, since my transformation a year ago, why I never dance anymore.  The reason, of course, is that, until recently, I didn't know how to dance.  I don't actually have the experience or the actual legitimate honest-to-god ballet training that my female self has.

But now that I'm taking this dance class, I'm feeling a little more confident, and so I joined in.  And I'm so glad I did.  It was fun. :)

~Kristen

Saturday, September 16, 2017

Miss Doubtfire 13


I badly need to do some housekeeping stuff for my blog.  I have about two months worth of series I need to add to my series page, and I have some stuff I want to straighten out with the tags I use on some of my older posts.

But not tonight.  Party tonight.

~Kristen

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