One of the things I'm exploring in this series is how one given couple has chosen to cope with the Genderwave. Adam and Melissa have chosen to proactively adopt some of the language and tropes of their new sexes. I don't think this is the only way, or necessarily the best way, of dealing with the Genderwave, but I think it would be a popular option. Essentially, it's a a form of conscious acceptance of their transformation instead of stubborn resistance. In that respect, it's probably a healthy approach.
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